Hello please keep me anonymous..

I’m a girl of 24 years old and I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years now. As I’m writing this I’m going through pain. We’ve been happy and having a beautiful relationship until last year January that he confessed to me that he slept with a girl behind me and now the girls mom has threatened to kill his manhood. I was very sad and angry at the same time but I still forgave him and even helped him tell his mom too so we could know what to do. Mind you this guy has introduced me to his mom and every member of his family and they like me very much too.

Now after his family begged the woman to forgive him and everything he told me he has broken up with the girl and has nothing to do with her anymore. In our family we don’t have money but I’m a very hardworking young lady who believes relationship work hand in hand so I help him financially sometimes and don’t even bother to ask him for money to cook. To cut things short , I just found out he’s still with the same lady and they’ve been dating for almost a year and a half now.

Now the issue is that I’ve gotten the chance to travel outside this year which I’m almost done with all my paperwork but I just found out also that my boyfriend is still with that same girl and they’ve been dating for about a year and half now. Before I found out too he had proposed to me and I’ve accepted..Now I’m confused and don’t know what to do. This guy is someone I’ve been helping in all aspects whenever I can. My heart is shattered