please keep me anonymous. I need some advice from your followers.

My 32 year old fiancé has a 5 year-old daughter, her mother passed away when she was giving birth to her. He has been raising her ever since he lost his wife, with the help of his family of course. I am now in the picture and we’re going to get married in 2023 and I’m 6 months pregnant with his son. I’m not the stepmother type, so l know I won’t treat his daughter the same way I will treat our son.

To be quite honest, she annoys me! She looks exactly like her mother so she constantly reminds my fiancé of his dead wife and she is very attached to her daddy which makes me afraid that my son will not be able to bond with his father because of her.

Basically, I want to tell my fiancé to get rid of her, she can live with her grandparents or we can find her a nice couple that wants to adopt a child. I don’t know how to approach the situation but I need to find a way to convince my fiancé’ to get rid of her.

I’m not a bad person, I’m just trying to look out for my son and make sure that he will get all his father’s
attention that he deserves. Please help!!