So I and my husband have sex once or twice every two weeks. We’re extremely busy and have a child. My husband has stopped initiating it and just waits for when I ask for it 😩

When I do initiate it, it’s always after I’ve had a “sex dream.” These dreams are so vivid and they feel so real that I sometimes have an orgasm and always want sex afterward (let me know if you’ve experienced this, it has happened to me since college consistently).

Anyways, because my husband is well endowed and I go such long stretches without sex, I’m in a lot of pain afterward.

What lubricant do you all recommend? I want something water base that won’t through my pH off or burns.