I recently found out my bf of over 2 years now has been on Instagram and Snapchat messaging probably at least a hundred girls flirting with them and saying things like ‘i wanna make you my next gf’ and making very sexually suggestive comments, I went through his phone for the first time and found at least one message like that every month since we first started dating, my problem is I’m being kicked out of my place soon and I can’t afford these rent prices (i pay 450 now and that’s unbeatable in my area and all I can afford) and he’s going to help me and let me stay with him, does anyone have any advice on how i can get over this and not feel sick to my stomach constantly? it’s been a week since i found out and i’ve thrown up every day, he promised he wouldn’t do it anymore but i just can’t help but be so hurt and disgusted and i want to move on

My in-laws are trying to get rid of my dogs. My husband lost his job so they can go outside for hours upon hours however much they wanted. My husband finally got a job and my mother-in-law said we need to have a conversation about the dogs that now that we both work it’s not fair to the dogs. We have them in crates inside but when we do come back they are let out immediately if wanted a walk. How can I passive-aggressively say I am not getting rid of my dogs? They are all basically husbands or dogs but my dogs are so much more supportive than my husband

How do I tell a guy that I can’t afford to date? He’s down on his luck right now – he’s going through some personal stuff and doesn’t have a job, so I’ve been paying for everything – food, drinks, taxis, etc for the two of us. I make less than £1000 a month, and our last date cost me £400 (I didn’t anticipate that I’d have to pay for everything). I can barely afford to pay for myself, let alone him as well. But I really like him, and I don’t want him to hate me or feel like I’m abandoning him while he goes through such a difficult time. I’m supposed to be seeing him again this weekend but honestly, I really need to save money, especially after our last date. What would you guys do?

I’m trying to get into, I guess to call it, sugar baby things? I mainly wanted to find people who wanted to buy pics/vids. Not looking to do things in person, just keep it online. I started trying this months ago and had no luck, but my friend just started last week and she’s already made so much money. Yes, I do have a job, but I want to do this as a side thing. Is there any way I could find other people who are willing to do this?

So I and my husband have sex once or twice every two weeks. We’re extremely busy and have a child. My husband has stopped initiating it and just waits for when I ask for it 😩 When I do initiate it, it’s always after I’ve had a “sex dream.” These dreams are so vivid and they feel so real that I sometimes have an orgasm and always want sex afterward (let me know if you’ve experienced this, it has happened to me since college consistently). Anyways, because my husband is well endowed and I go such long stretches without sex, I’m in a lot of pain afterward. What lubricant do you all recommend? I want something water base that won’t through my pH off or burns.

I feel like every time I buy a sex toy they go missing! I think my husband is throwing them away and it’s weird. What are your thoughts?

Is there a way to get birth control without talking to your parents about it? I’m 17 and I want birth control because accidents are bad, but I don’t want to talk to my parents about it for, well, reasons.

I am really close with my nephew who is 13. We have had an incredibly close relationship for years now, and I have noticed that he has given me the role of trusted adult/confident. We talk about a lot of things, from basic knowledge to different worldviews and opinions, etc, to things that are bothering him. He really trusts me and I have worked really hard to gain this trust. The problem now is that his mother (my sister) is asking me whether he has spoken to me recently about anything that is troubling him. He definitely has, about a couple of things, and each time he has approached me I have given him appropriate advice. I have also urged him to speak to his parents if he feels comfortable enough to, he knows they only want the best for him. Here’s my conundrum. I feel like I am in a tricky situation here because I do not feel it is appropriate to break his trust and privacy. He came to me because he could trust me. However, as a parent myself, I would absolutely hate to think that my child was confiding in another adult instead of me (because I would want to help them). I would also ultimately understand, and be happy that they have someone other than me whom they can trust, but it would be pretty upsetting to be kept out of it. I don’t want to lie to my sister but I don’t want to break the trust we have. For context, he is having relationship problems and some bullying. His parents are aware of the bullying but clearly not the relationship problems.

My bf(31)and I(22) have been together for 2 years now. Things have escalated to the point I am feeling scared about our future together. He’s never hit me, but it’s more of a verbal and mental thing. He will give me Silent treatment for days, he will ignore me or say really hurtful things about me for no reason. I’ll give an example; he was making food and putting raw meat on the counter. I said, ” Oh babe that’s kind of nasty we have a cutting board, there can be germs ya nasty”(I said it in a joking way And was laughing). He responded by saying, “you always ruin everything for me, and I’m gross? You’re the one that Is actually disgusting by bleeding once a month from your body and making nasty jokes. That’s the stuff I will think about if we break up.” Maybe not the best example, but it’s always like this. He says something 1000x more hurtful. And then gives me the silent treatment. There’s a list of things I can’t do literally *Cant go to any sort of bar(even with him) *my sister isn’t allowed to stay (they got into an argument) *I’m not allowed to have alcohol when I want, he has to approve first *I’m not allowed to watch tv shows/videos I like in my free time because I’m wasting opportunities to get a job *I shouldn’t wear makeup in public *I should dye my hair blonde instead of my natural dark brown Anyway, THE MAIN POINT is that I want to leave. I’m in the interview process and I know I will need like $5,000 for the first and last payment + utilities being turned on and whatever else. Do you guys think it would be better to get this job……

My husband is divorcing me because I cheated. Can I get half of what he owns without getting also the kids? I want to have fun with the money and I think the kids would take too much of my time.