I know people are going to come here and be like well yeah, it’s your husband, like obviously I love him. But there’s a difference in loving someone, and having a crush on them. And I have a crush on my husband. 8 years we’ve been together. 8 years. And I still can’t stop staring at him and thinking he’s the most handsome guy, and when he stares back I still get butterflies and feel myself blush. He makes me giddy and nervous. Not nervous in a bad way, but nervous in a /just want him to lean in and kiss me kinda way. Like a my phone buzzed and I hope it’s him kinda way. And when we go out, I find myself struggling to find the perfect outfit because I want to look just right and I’ll spend forever curling my hair til it’s perfect. I don’t know. I know I’m being gushy. But I don’t really care. He’s currently working on some paperwork and I’m sitting in the room with him. We haven’t said anything, but I can’t stop glancing up at him from my phone and just wondering how, out of all people, / get to be his wife.
Do you want kids? Be BRUTALLY honest about your answer. I watched a couple of friends go from ‘cool married couple I wanna be like’ to ‘people that can’t share the same area code’ pretty much overnight when they got pregnant. She wanted kids, he didn’t, she decided to go off the pill without telling him. and their relationship dissolved pretty soon after she announced she was expecting. He’s a totally not at all involved non-parent who pays his support but has repeatedly refused any custody arrangement that would force him to spend time with his son. She’s WAY bitter about how things turned out. think they’re both assholes.
So my boyfriend and I have sex once a month, it’s not like I don’t like sex but I don’t want our relationship to be centered around sex every time we meet. I love him very much so l need to set standards for him to see value in me but deep down I crave sex everyday. Recently I’ve been seeing this guy, I don’t love him, don’t see my future with him so I feel comfortable having sex with him everyday, I don’t mind if he sees me as a whore I’m just using him to satisfy my urge.
Having sexual intercorse with other men even if you’re married is completely fine. Humans are polygamous animals by nature society has forced us to be monogamous and thus enforced marriage. Don’t let marriage stop you from exploring yourself and your body to it’s true potential. If your husband isn’t able to satisfy your sexual needs, it’s his fault, not yours, he should be apologetic. Marriage doesn’t means you’re bound to have sex with only one person or gender. These are norms set by society break them ASAP. You can have sex with others but still love your husband and family, sex and love are not the same. The patriarchal society will always try to hold you back, just deny. Enjoy your life to the fullest.
It was my wedding day, I was at the verge of saying my vows when my eyes came in contact with my ex. He was my favorite ex and I immediately started reminiscing of the moments we had. During my reception ceremony, he came to whisper in my ear to meet him at the restroom. I hesitated at first, but I went there. To cut the long story short, we had a quickie right there in the restroom. Well, after my wedding, I still sneak out of the house to f*Ck my ex.